Do the people you surround yourself with bring joy to your life– or pain and resentment? Be completely honest with yourself, and choose who you spend your precious life hours with WISELY.
If you aren’t totally sure about how you feel about someone, I’ve discovered two ways you can tell how you TRULY feel about them: 1) How do you feel after you’ve spent any amount of time with the person? Do you feel happy and wish you could stay longer, OR do you have an icky feeling inside? OR 2) How do you feel when you see that person’s name pop up on your cell phone? Excited to talk to them, indifferent, or “Ugh, I do NOT want to talk to him/her; this one’s going to voice mail””?
Life is too short to spend your precious life hours with those that bring you down. Don’t waste time– and don’t be one of the “negative ones” yourself!